Monthly Archives: November 2012

What Might Have Been :: Super cute sandals, cool organization. A friend of mine knows the people running it on the Uganda side and she says they are legit. That’s a relief – because I always wonder and hate to be disappointed when I find out an organization isn’t as good as their stated intentions. Anyways, I recently read about the cuteness of these shoes on a hip blog and was reminded that I do want to buy a pair some day – maybe they will be 2013’s summer shoes 🙂

Once upon a time(almost 2 years ago now!), when I was planning to move to Dhaka (thus the title of this blog) I was excited about a job that would’ve allowed me to immerse myself into the world of social enterprises and fairly traded products – particularly those that support and benefit the women who make them. It goes without saying that I am NOT QUITE doing that at present and when I happen upon organizations like Sseko I often think about what my life might have been had things worked out differently. It took awhile, but I think I’m okay with what didn’t work out and okay with what IS working itself out.  That, and being on the consumer end of these endeavors isn’t so bad – because these sandals are CUTE! Check ‘em out, I bet you’ll want a pair too! http://ssekodesigns.com/

Things Learned in Yoga Class

A couple weeks ago I took what they call a “Yoga Immersion Class”. Every day for 2 weeks I showed up at 7AM at this perfect little yoga studio. The title of our class was Awaken To Grace. If you know me, you know the irony of this as I’ve never once in my life woken up to or in a graceful state – I wake up silent, grumpy, and sometimes slightly aggravated with the simple fact that I have to have my eyes open…AGAIN.

And so it was in my disgruntled morning state that I somehow managed to get myself to yoga class every day. Some days all I wanted to do was growl for 90 minutes, other days I came very close to falling asleep while holding poses, and there were days when thinking about breathing for the entire class was an impossible task.

BUT, on the days when I wasn’t growling, rolling my eyes, or keeping myself from falling asleep I experienced a very beautiful QUIET and sense of ALLOWING — Allowing me to be me, allowing life to be what it is. I was gently reminded that I don’t have to make everything happen or force things to be what I want. There is freedom in the world and in life to ALLOW.  

I guess this isn’t such a new or profound thought, just one that has been hard to put into practice these days. So it was nice, day after day, to gently, slowly, and quietly be reminded of it in the midst of physically breathing, stretching, allowing, and being – and letting myself listen and believe that voice that says “You are going to be okay. In fact, YOU ARE OKAY.“  Goodness, I sound crazy! But hopefully what I’m saying makes just a little bit of sense and offers you – lucky reader an ounce of that same grace toward yourself and life and a second to take one deep breath and know in your soul that you too are going to be okay, you are okay, you are more than okay – YOU ARE GOOD.

 

Midnight Cami :: I read on a blog that all the hip cool women in New York City are walking around with navy blue painted nails… and I was INSPIRED. So inspired that I decided to give it a try. Perhaps one trip to Walgreens and a simple nail polish purchase could result in life changing coolness. You know when things don’t turn out quite the way you pictured in your head? Yes, this is the case with my navy blue nails. They aren’t quite the “trendy, hip, and perfectly cool” that I had envisioned (I think what I was going for was a blue more like Bobbing for Baubles), but I guess that’s the way it goes sometimes and I can hardly justify ANOTHER blue nail polish purchase. Nonetheless, I’ve been rocking blue nails this week.

Lime Green Success :: Our household is on a mission to make some updates to our common living space. This may seem a simple task, but when you take into consideration the tastes and preferences of four people that are quite different and the fact that furniture is particularly expensive, attempts at making purchases and agreeing on anything are more difficult than one could possibly anticipate. This week we had a giant success though. It came in the form of a lime green couch that we all like and that the purchaser LOVES (An important rule we established: Purchaser must love item, if possible everyone else must like or atleast not hate it). Never in my seven years of knowing her has said purchaser exclaimed love for an inanimate object, but moments after purchasing this couch she proclaimed her love. While I’m sure her eyes will roll when she sees I’ve posted about her couch love on this blog, if there’s one thing I’ve learned about my dear housemate it’s that she says what she really thinks and deeply feels in the moment – which means she REALLY loves the couch –  and I am so glad! Stay tuned for the chair that I purchased and LOVE and perhaps someday our entire living room will be in a state where I can post about it as well.

http://www.kino-zeit.de/swf/flowplayer.commercial-3.2.7.swf

“We are traveling the love lane. Down the road we will meet again.” – Raj in Rab Ne Bana Di Jodi :: I heart Bollywood – all of it! The music, the dancing, the cinema, the clothes, the drama, the comedy, and the romance. People in India are in love with this movie, as am I. I was laughing and smiling throughout the entire 3 hours of it.